| What happens to Bullies? |
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 The life-long outlook for bullies is not good. If bullies don't learn how to change their behavior, the pattern of bullying behavior often becomes a habit as the bully gets older.Bullies have average social popularity up to approximately age 14 or 15. In fact, some children even look up to bullies in some ways because they are powerful and do what they want to, or have to, to get their way with their peers. However, by late adolescence, the bully's popularity begins to wane. By senior high school, if a bully is still attending school, his or her peers group includes other bullies, or more seriously, he or she has developed or is developing gang alliances. By late high school, school-yard bullying is a rare occurrence, but what takes its place is more serious. By age 24, up to sixty percent of people who are identified as childhood bullies have at least one criminal conviction. A study spanning 35 years by psychologist E. Eron at the University of Michigan found that children who were named by their school mates, at age eight, as the bullies of the school were often bullies throughout their lives. In this longitudinal study of bullies, many of these children, as adults, required more support from government agencies (Psychology Today, Sept. 1995). For example, these children later had more court convictions, more alcoholism, more antisocial personality disorders and used more of the mental health services than the other children. Unless new behaviors are learned and adopted, bullies continue to bully throughout their lifetime. They bully their mates, their children, and possibly their underlings in their place of business. Bullying gets them what they want, and although some bullies learn to refine the art of bullying in their professional lives and use it in situations where there is a power imbalance, it creates less than harmonious relations in the workplace.
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DAMIEN ALANIZ
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some girl
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school work i am doing a school exposition on bullying and i needed to know aboout the long-term effects on bullies to give my presentation that final touch. This site really helped thanks  BTW: i think it's really interesting about what happens to the bullies once they reach a certain age. what goes around comes around i guess  thanks heaps bye xxx |
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dannysk8
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i hate being a bully  I hate being a bully cus i got grounded from it i've learned my lesson i hav to do a three page essay on bully proofing take it from me bullying sucks i've been grounded but not lik dis.    |
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austin
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I HATE YOU ALL :) I HATE BEING BULLEID. BECAUSE I AM A NERD. I HATE IT WHEN I GET BEAT UP. I HATE IT WHEN I GET SHOVE IN THE LOCKERS. AND GET THROWNED IN THE GARBAGE CAN AND EVERYTIME I GO HOME I SMELL LIKE POO. ALSO BECAUSE "NEVER IN MY LIFE I KISSED A GIRL AND I NEVER WENT OUT WITH A GIRL AND I AM 16 YEARS OLD...  |
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kaelin moore
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bulling bulling is a problem in the world right now and it is effecting chrildren globlely |
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chicken
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raaaaaaaaaaarggggg!!! well... all of you bullies need to get a life!! i hate bully's there stupid and just need to stop.  |
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Ash
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interesting :0 It's interesting what happens to people who get bullied later in life. There are different reasons people bully to begin with. Some of them may wisen up, some don't. I got bullied throughout grade school (kindergarten till senior year of high school and boy let me tell you it was horrible. What was even worse was the fact I went home to abusive parents every day, so I didn't know which was better (being beaten up by mother or being beaten up and having my money stolen by bullies.). An interesting think is during high school one of the bullies got pregnant in her sophomore year and dropped out of high school... I still got abusive parents now, but at least I don’t also have crazy jerks breathing down my neck… |
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sinbin
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Problem with bullies Bulies are selfish,cold,liers, munupulative, evil. The fact is bullies have seen violence but have not felt violence. One my see his mum and dad argue but may not physicaly get hit by his parents. Its as simple as this if you get abused by your parents then you will get abused through out your life.This also means that you will not eat,sleep, think well,not get a girlfreand and ultimately become weaker as time goes on, not to mention become more unhappy. If you do not get hit by your parents then your ego and confidence grows through out your life. This means that you eat well, sleep well, get phiycaly stronger,get happily marrige, think quicker and are happy with there lives. This is the reality of it! This is primitivity at its finest. What we all must realize is that we are not animals! as human beings we are ment to be better than animals but right now we are the same or even below animals. We humans have knowledge, creativity and passion. I belive a human being should be commited, understanding, and warm at heart. These words should guide even the coldest person in the right direction. I belive anyone can perfect him/her self if they want to. I feel it is meant to be, humans are in there own right supiriour beings on earth. We will only be ready for the stars when we master ourselves. This is the reson why violence and image is stupid it is getting us nowear. Do not give in to image |
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emm
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why? bullies are just stupid i dont understand the point of bullying. im also doing a school assignment and this helps alot thanks you muchllyy |
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paula
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i remember........ one day a kid was getting beat up in school by these stupid kids!!! the kids told the little boy something sooooo bad........ the next day..... he was not at school. days later the police found him dead in a canal....... it was really sad |
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Felix Cruz
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bullies bullies have no live they get betten at home and take it out on kids i would now because i now this bully but he whasent always like that when i was 6 my friend was at home and i was on the bus i heard yelling at his house and say him betten he was crying the morning he was brused i asked if he was okay he was still bleeding from being bet and he yelled at me and ran the next day he had a black and blue eye and from then on he is still bet and he still bullies |
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Ash
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Bullies grown up All nerds out there don't worry about those stupid bullies any bet later on in life they will have no job and probably still be living with their parents. Nerds will always win in life. You will be successful in life while poor bullies are working at fish n chip shop. |
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christopher jones
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a message to bullies hello my name chris and i send a important message to the bullies out there i think you bullies need to get somewhere and sit down because you is hurted everbody around you and thats really sad because i have been bully by a person i did;t like but i stand up to for myself and think you can do the same for yourself and we people need to stand up for ourselves |
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Makela
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??? Im in middle school and i have a question to the people who got bullied or people who bullied other kids... for people who bullied why did you bully them were you jealous of them or did you just not have a live... for the people who got bullied did you give them a reason to bully you and can you tell me how you handled it... |
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JF
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What if we marked Bullies like we do Sex offenders? I thought of an interesting way to stop or slow down the bulling issues in schools and in life in general. If you are caught bulling someone. You get labeled just as sex offender is labeled. Currently there is no real crime being committed. But when you hear about the young kids killing themselves because they are being bullied so badly. Why should these bullies get to get away with such things. This should follow them the remainder of their lives. A sex offender has to register with city when they move to the area. Why shouldn't a bully have to do the same? This might help stop or even slow the harmful effects that bulling others causes. This is a crime that seriously goes unpunished, making it acceptable. Well it is no longer acceptable. Something needs to be done! Thanks for reading my opinion |
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sam
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calm down!!!... everyone should like calm down cause bullying is not a big deal. its like anyone cares about it anymore. and i know that u guys are all just faking it... i had enough of talking about bullying cause im writing a 2500 word essay bout bullying |
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scue u bullys
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hay i hav been bullyed my self and i know from being bullyed myself that bulling is dangais and people do do suaside because they atuly baleave what people say they dont want to but they cant help it so scue u bullys |
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scue u bullys
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bonnie porter
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my solution to austin getting bullyed austin you can kiss me i got some juicy ass lips....btw if you cash me out ill be your girlfriend |
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