What makes a Bully?
Friday, 17 October 2008 18:38
FAQBullying behavior can be identified as early as pre-school age, and some children who are bullies continue this behavior into adulthood. Most children learn to control their anger and fighting instincts as they grow older, but not the bully. These children have special characteristics. Children who systematically bully others usually have a group of children they bully regularly while other bullies randomly target a variety of students.

Bullies have particular behavior and personality traits. Dr. Sam Samenow describes these as:
  • greater than average aggressive behavior patterns
  • the desire to dominate peers
  • the need to feel in control, to win
  • no sense of remorse for hurting another child
  • a refusal to accept responsibility for his/her behavior
Parent(s) of bullies usually support their child's aggressive behavior toward other children and often bully their child.
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shasha said:

what i have to say.
dont ever let a bully take over u if u do it will just make it worst ok u should stand up for your selfsmilies/wink.gif
 
March 16, 2009 3:03pm
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March 16, 2009 3:04pm
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June 16, 2009 7:41pm
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bullying
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October 26, 2009 10:27am
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abby funtown said:

victim
i was bullied never knew what to do and people taunted for that. now i stand ready to fight for someone are you one of thoose people? think about it have you ever been bullied and wanted it to stop? now are you are you ready to take a stand
 
December 09, 2009 5:38pm
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katy hopple said:

bullying is not cool
bullying is not cool, the only reason there is bullying in the usa and in public schools is because there are people that have a bad life and so they take it out on other people or they are jelouse and that is what they do to make there day better and so please help stop bullying in schools and please make a differentice thank yousmilies/sad.gifsmilies/sad.gifsmilies/sad.gifsmilies/sad.gifsmilies/shocked.gifsmilies/cool.gifsmilies/cool.gifsmilies/tongue.gifsmilies/kiss.gifsmilies/kiss.gif
 
January 04, 2010 11:56am
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hannah said:

bulling
someone at my schoo,l bullys me and i sand up to her
 
June 03, 2010 12:17pm
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Emily said:

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This girl named Meg, (wince) has bullied me since the first day of school. I finally stood up to her and said, "if you touch me AGAIN, I will disable that big, ugly mouth of yours!" Surprisingly,it worked. smilies/grin.gif
 
September 04, 2010 11:40am
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aaron said:

hell the victims of bullying
It is estimated that 160,000 children miss school every day due to fear of attack or intimidation by other students. Source: National Education Association. Also one out of 20 students have seen a student with a gun at school. smilies/angry.gif
 
October 04, 2010 10:38am
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Donna Posey said:

And so....
And so it goes that in almost everyone's home intimidation and control happens, but it's to the degree that it is taken to. If a parent(male/female) is looking at their own children to push around (not in the parenting way but in the making you feel insignificant way) then the problem is already starting. When you don't speak on the problem from the inside then you allow it to grow and then YOU will soon become the BULLY yourself. Think about it.smilies/wink.gif
 
October 06, 2010 12:53pm
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December 08, 2010 11:07am
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Jay Jay said:

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December 09, 2010 1:19pm
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Skye said:

Being on the other side of the fist.
Sometimes bullies think that they look cool infront of their friends when they make someone look stupid or embaress them. Or beating the crap out of someone might get them respect or something... Well they need to wake up to reality. When a bully embaresses someone or puts them down, it makes other kids look at them and think, well their rude... And i don't think they'd be a nice friend. Or if you hurt someone, it probably will just scare the crap out of them. So get it through your head people!!!! Bullying IS NOT cool. It just makes you look like a brat. smilies/kiss.gif
 
January 11, 2011 1:18pm
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Lexi said:

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I waz once bullying and was stupid and did nothing but now i stand up for people who bully it seriously sad to see some people are so sad that they take there issues on people who they THINK are weaker then them.
 
April 13, 2011 4:06am
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May 22, 2011 12:11am
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November 11, 2011 1:39am
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in my truthful opinion, bullies are evil and not normal. if a bully is going through something and that person takes it out on another person, then that bully is a coward and has no life, the bully should go home and complain to his or her own family since it's possible that a bully is going through something at home. my advice to all of you who have been bullied or who are getting bullied right now, is to defend yourself if no one is coming to your defense, try not to get scared or nervous if u are trying to defend yourself against a bully who is starting serious problems with or without a reason, and never try to take your own lives because bullies tell their victims to kill themselves, so please do not do what the bullies are saying, always be verbally or physically strong against a bully incase the bully tries to physically hurt u.
 
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