| What are the different kinds of Bullies? |
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loot
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bully anyone know what kind of bully my friend is? He bully's other bullies... Si that even bully?ing |
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Hurt
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Bullying isnt funny Ive gone through being bullied i once was a bi standar, the victim ( More then anything else) and even the bully .... I say stop stand up to those who bully and show the bullied that really they only picked u because you have or they think u have a perfect life... because u can show the world ur smile and say i have a million reasons to smile and jus 3 reasons to cry... I say step in to help those in need did you know that there are 17 suicides everyday because of bullying and every 17 seconds someone tries... Honestly i think stop the suicide stop the bullies and stop the war then maybe just maybe we can fix the world inch by inch and we dont have to cry when we here about the poor countries or someone getting shot |
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david stallard
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Bully You wanna kno what kinda bully i am if i get bullied imma bully back cus i dont play nd dat stuff aint funny forreal put dat in yo pipe nd smoke it ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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Ashley
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ppl r mean ppl r mean if they want to hurt a nother human being and thats not right would you want some one to come up to u and push you down i think ppl like that need to get a life and go some where, where they r wanted cause if any one comes up to me like that i will hit them so hard that i will be the only last thing they will see, now put that in your pipe and smoke it booyah!!!!!!!! ![]() |
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sexygirl
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mean ppl if someone bully me wtf imma bully them back ![]() ![]() ![]() y wld I sit there and let some1 bully me while I sit there and CRY |
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maxine
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bullying i got bullied in the past and i no what it is like for those people thats my freind above me lol lmao |
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David
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BIG FAT BULLY!!!! I'm only ten and ever body is a bully on my bus only me nobody just me. |
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John
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Big Player Yo you no what bully I am, I'f somebody hurts me they get bully even i'f my friends get bully I stand up got it PLAYER!!!!!! |
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Madeline
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Bulling isn't cool!!! I think that bulling is a huge issue and i'm happy that people are trying to stop it. ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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Devmi
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Bullying You know just because you are a victim of bullying it doesn't mean you have to go for revenge like bully the person back have a heart! If you bully the person back it will come back to you it will just go on and on and on so why not end it right itin one place. Stand up to the bully instead of wiating and crying... Tell someone you know better than the bully so why suffer. If you knew better you wouldn't go and bully that person back you would stand up to yourself! I know the feeling of being bullying... so you decide after all it's your life not mine remember. |
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MAXINE
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Bullying. I was bullied all through my life, hurt, laughed at, and I am seriously messed up. I cut myself, starve myself and might run away or kill myself. So no, guys, bullying is the worst thing you could ever do to a child, and children can be so cruel. I don' ever want to see another child bullied, and if I do, I am going to run. |
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Jojo Bizarro
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Root Cause of Bullying I know the feeling of being bullied, not just as a student but also as a teacher. I got bullied last week by a bunch of morons in a tenth-grade class. They were throwing pieces of chalk at me while I was trying to conduct a lesson, and while their serious classmates were trying to learn something. They only threw things when my back was turned, but I could see the ones who found it funny. Their names have been reported to the vice principal at my school, who in turn will inform their parents about what happened. Bullying in schools is the main reason why I oppose compulsory school attendance, a root cause of bullying. Bullies are ignorant and typically don't care about what's being taught in school and thus won't learn anything. Compulsory attendance therefore really has nothing good going for it. It has one major strike against it, though, namely that bullies involuntarily kept there in the classroom disrupt the classroom environment and interfere with the learning of those who go to school to actually learn something. It would open up a lot of doors to learning for those willing to learn if we teachers could just boot the morons out the classroom door. |
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bubble_hehe!
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bullying i think bullying is wrong and bullies are stupid and not cool to me even if they try to be cool they are really not. and i think that physial bullying is wrong and it is wrong to do i think bulling should be stopped. |
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Every bully's worst nightmare
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This just reflects societal subjugation The purpose of schools is not education, but systematized obedience-training from childhood in order to create a docile work-force population which does as it's told, an can't think for itself. After all, if your earliest childhood experiences are of being legally forced to go to a government education-center among strangers, regardless of how your rights are violated there, then clearly you're learning that individual rights really don't matter that much, and you're just supposed to tolerate any abuse that comes along, and "get used to it--" and feel indifferent or superior to anyone who complains. So basically, bullying is simply the end-product of a long-running political cause, and the best solution is for victims to take the matter to court immediately, since otherwise the schools won't do anything, since they know that they've got the kids basically as prisoners with no rights. Students have to learn that schools and faculty are NOT their friends, but their JAILERS- and schools ARE jails of a sort... for those who committed no crime. Ironically, however, prisoners have more rights than students. |
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lolly
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bullying if your getting bullied take a bigger stand fully the f**kers back dnt have it ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() thell soon enough back down x |
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Bullied no more
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Standing by is Just as Guilty I taught my son never to start a fight, but if someone started one with him, to always finish it. AND I taught him never to just stand by if someone else was being bullied. More than once the school suspending him for fighting. When I'd ask why, it would turn out he was defending some kid being picked on. So I'd make his suspension into a vacation -- we'd go out and do something unusually fun. |
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shea
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bullying I deal with bullying everyday its not somthing 2 laugh at its a serious thing people have commited suicide because of it . if tht was ur firend or family member would u still be laughing bought it? |
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Chelsea
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being bullied and dont know what to do? I am being bullied in school and i don't know what to do because if i tattle i will get beat up by the bully but i want to tell the principle but i am scared to WHAT SHOULD I DO??? sincerely, Chelsea |
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hendra
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whatshouldi do i think you should call the bully hotline its 1-800-4CHILD and 1800-273-talk. |
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asena
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u dont know how hard felling it is i think bully should stop.seriousily it should stop.i dont know why people bully.they think its fun or having a snap at someone.look what happened at dunheavens.that boy got bullied and bashed him up.thats bullying but thats verbal bullying. |
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Anna-soma
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Help , how can I stop this from happening to me all the time. Any advice will be greatly appreshiated. I get bullied by my little sister alot . Every time we are in a group of people and I'm with her, I get ignored alot of the time because she is very outgoing and friendly and alot of people like that about her personality. And I'm more quiet , introverted and not very outgoing or chatty at all when I'm around people so I quess they just are drawn towerds my little sister more , and as a result I often get ignored. |
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Katie
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... bulling is NOT funny last year my friend almost killed her self last year she was being picked ou cuzz shes bi like really tho it dont change who she is,,,,,,,![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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Andrea
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Im doing a project on bullying! Ok so when i started doing my project i found out wat a big deal bullying is and ive been verbal bullied before and its sad! it happened when i was in elementary and ive been cyberbullied a few times! even by ppl who i thought were my friends..... |
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SHAY
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this is so sad omg ; omg this is so sad b/c yall dont know what different people go through everyday in there life of being bullyed in a day at school ; even if yuh tell the teacher or your parent the bullies will get even more hard on you ' or others will call you a snitch ; PLEASE STOP BULLYiNG NOWWWWWWWW ! SMH |
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Lily
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Bullied I am still being bullied because I am in grade eight and it is not funny it hurts a lot. In my case I am being peer bullied and I really thought they were my friends |
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takera
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Bullying I use to be a bully. Now i am the bullies target. You should never bully anyone because what goes around comes around. |
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Angele & Sarah
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Bulllying Bullying is realllly realllllly not cooool and i think it should stop and im also doing a project on it hehe SO STOP being inmmmmature and stop bullying thaaaanks (: NOT COOOOL !!!! |
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Sarah & Angele
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AGREEED ! AGREEED WITH ANGELE !!!! buullyiing is realy not cool , peoples get realy hurt by bullying imaging if that was u being bullyed . im pretty shuree u wouldnt like it . so .. DONT DO IT PLEASE ! can we bring pce to earth , life would be so much better ! thaanks |
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Angeeeele x3
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iloveyouSARAH x3 thaaaanks for the agreeeed i loooove you best friend illl never let you get bulllyed |
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Elle
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Bullying i was bullied for years and years, especially in primary school i had gangs made up against me that included the whole school even the preps, but they would come up to me and smash me head against the brick wall, i lost a few teeth to them. bullying is not cool it is a really painful experience for the person being bullied ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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sadloner
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bullying hurts alot! I've hated being bullied so much especially when people leave me outta the group I get so mad I just want to show them all my anger!!! it's not funny peoples |
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katey
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BULLING IS BAD!!!!!!!!! I HATE BEING BULLIED ITS NOT NICE AND IT WAS MOSTLY BOYS THEY BULLY ME AT PRIMARY AND IN INTERMEDIATE SOME STILL BULLY ME BUT I JUST IGNOR THEM ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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earl Mcintyre
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these nutts bitch ass muther f**ker im a f**kin bully u got a problem about it bitch |
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good side ide
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good side firstly donit get y people r makin rude,abusive remarks i rated up ,down ,and abusive :O b on the good side do somthing about bulling its not cool,fun how would u like 2 b in that position yeah dint think so :p b on the good side remember wat u do comes back 2 u / p.s. rate this 'vote up' |
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Joiya Woods
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tears in hands Hey peeps, I'm new. I didn't even kno stuf lik dis exsisted. I'm a senior and i am giving a lecture about the effects of bullying. If you guys want to put some feed back into it, let me know and I'll check back later. |
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secret
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i am being bullied the hardest thing ever is being bullied by your x-best friend she verbally, emotionally and relational bullies me. not a pity it's just sad. isn't it? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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Taesha
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Bullying I am doing a bunch of research and I am learning a lot of things.I really did not know this much. |
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Amy Peavler
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hmm.... I personally think that bullies are really low. if you're I think that you have every right to do back what they did to you, like if they hit you, hit them back. they call you names, call them something worse. I was bullied and a bully. I stuck up for myself then finally grew up. |
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kayla
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ugh!! Okay get this bullies aren't the best people in the world but they aren't the worst either. just b/c everyone gets mad at them and snitches and then they get hurt but ooooh well!! you know a bully isn't just a bad person they got a good side too they just don't show it.. the reason i know this is b/c i used to be a bully and i know what it feels like and what they go thru.. okay this stops now and really does this give u happiness or great feeling??? just get over it and make yourself better in life like for real.. |
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Nini
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Gamit Kayla that goes to the heart i didn't know you wre a bully.. I also know that a bullie just doesn't bully some one just to have fun.. They do it b/c they have been bullied in the past.. Jut know that God loves you and he wants us to love eachother.. |
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kayla
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psycho!! This is to all those worthless bullys out there if u have a problem with ppl that disagree on how u act or the problems u put people thru then u need help... all these good people are out here making there life some what better b/c they think u are gonna change but all you mofo's out there think that this spit is a game.... don't play with poeples hearts.. just remember what goes around comes back around and hurts worst.. |
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Nini
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... This is soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo oooooooooooooooo Fun ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ; D ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ; D ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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Taylor
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Im really was bullied! please read :( It kinda feels like bullying to me but, I have friends who whenever I play a game with them that its the goal to "not be it" kinda thing, they always seem to want to get me. Or if its like the opposite, they like never seem to get me. Or when I do something normal like everyone else, They say "stop it". The second worst is when its time at school for doing an activity in group, nobody ever wants to go in group with me. Oh, and the worst! (to me, kinda)... There is a girl named caresse, she ALWAYS gossips of me! Like an example, my stomach hurt, so I was like walking weird but it would to take off my hands from my stomach or leaning a bit down. I even heard her say it to another girl named Makayla. I said, "My stomach kinda hurts. I can't stop walking weirdly!" And by the way, the next part has happened to me and my friend Mackenzie. So Another example is : Mackenzie and I were sitting in the corner of the grass just talking and Caresse just comes up to us and says hold my coat. We throw it back and say No! Again, she threw it to us and said the same words. We did too. A thrird time, she says HOLD IT!!! I throw it back and say "NO!!! Were not coat racks!" She looks at us weirdly and leaves. !!!!! SO I MOVED SCHOOLS TO SOLVE THE PROBLEM> SO THEY DON'T TREAT ME LIKE A COAT RACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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Nancy Martin
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Nancy Martin Okay,i admit that bullies have an awesomely unique side, but this doesn't mean that just because they don't show there good side they show there bad side. Life goes on , you have ups and downs. But if you think you can live on by bullying others. Think again, because if you have no life, go make one for yourself, go discover yourself But people often say that a person has not yet found himself. But the self is not something one finds, it is something one creates. And of course peace a really big issue in the world now, if you want peace you don't back to a bully, just keep ignoring because if you fight back you're just as equal as that bully. He bullied you and you bully him back. For victims, life goes on, you need to be dependent on yourself, you can't be dependent on a by stander, there just there to stand around and see "the MOST Amazing SHOW EVER" For the teachers who get bullied, you can"t just make the kid go to the office or report them to the principal, if you want them to be more respectful to you there are other ways you can use. Like sometimes let them do what they want to, something they think is fun and then make sure you also teach them the lesson you are supposed to teach. But you don't improve someone by giving them punishments. There are positive ways. You guys are teachers, teachers should know between good and bad. Bullying doesn’t only affect the life of the one being bullied; if the bully hasn’t been stopped he can come attack you also. Bullying has an impact on everybody's lives, Because bullying isn't just bullying it's being bad and taking negative decision under negative circumstances. |
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Nancy Martin
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Very dissapointed Guys this bored is for bullies, victims and by standers to share there feelings, why are you guys ruining everything for them by using bad language, and saying things to your friends that what you use other social websites for !!!! |
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diamond bentley
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... if ur a bully then sometimes u think ur cool but, ur rlly not all u do is ake other people feel bad and thts not cool at all the only reason u do tht is cuz there around thair friends so....... if ur a bully than stop cuz ur not cool at all and if ur a victam of bullying then just stad up for urself and just stop holding ur head down!!!!!!!! be a (FRIEND) not a (BULLY)!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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jasmine chandler
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hey i am doing a report on bullying i use to be a bully but i stopped cause i relized everythinmg that was happening it is very sad on what can happen to the kids that are getting bullied i highly thing it needs to stop |
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Anonymous
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Sad Bystander I was a sad bystander, and I told on the guy. I'm doing a report on bullying now and it's going very well. I learned all kinds of different bullying and.... yah. |
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There are four main types of Bullies:
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